This new term refers to a way in which couples can cheat on each other, and is set to be one of 2017’s most common relationship ruiners
CUSHIONING is the nasty new trend which is ruining relationships, and you may be guilty of it without even realising.
This new term refers to a way in which couples can cheat on each other, and is set to be one of 2017’s most common relationship ruiners.
Cushioning is essentially the practice of making sure that you have some insurance on the side in case your relationship goes sour.
So cushioning cheats might be stringing someone else along for months whilst in a relationship, just to make sure that there’s something – or someone – to cushion the blow if they get dumped.
Serial cheats may be leading a few people on at the same time, to make sure that there’s always a soft landing in store if they’re faced with the pain of a breakup.
And the popularity of dating apps means its easier than ever to keep someone on the back burner for months, without arousing any suspicion from your partner.
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Of course, cushioning is counter-productive in the sense that it increases the chances of your relationship going sour in the first place.
If your partner catches you flirting with other people then you can bet you’ll need all the cushions you have, but even if they never find out it doesn’t bode well that you’re planning for the worst.
Some people cushion early on in a relationship, when things are still uncertain, but the worst cases occur deep into a serious commitment.
Earlier this year, an anonymous student shared her experiences of cushioning with The Tab.
She said: “All of senior year I was hooking up with/essentially dating my now boyfriend (but god forbid commitment when you’re 22, ya know).
“The entire time… I had at least two or three guys that I was stringing along in the occasion that things didn’t work out.
“And even now that we’re officially (and happily, might I add) dating for over a year, I’m definitely guilty of keeping the occasional guy around who so blatantly flirts with me and would hop in at the chance, half because I don’t mind the attention but mainly because if things didn’t work out I’m glad I know I would have a floating device when the ship goes down.”
The shocking trend is complimented by the practice of breadcrumbing, a very modern obstacle to striking up a meaningful relationship.